The true way of being a father is more than being a man who has made a baby… it is about living every moment with that child in a peaceful, balanced and harmonious way. Supportive. Co-existence. Always showing willingness to be truthful, honest and forthright with loving kindness and being a model and leader with appropriate secure firmness. And when necessary saying no with compassion and without dramatics or outbursts of over-the-top emotions. This certainly means showing how to be kind, gentle and loving to this child’s mother. Being a daddy means having ability to demonstrate and express all emotions with maturity and with intellect and with honor and respect of self and all around. Dads will be warriors without violence, threat or intimidation. None of us were born being fathers and too many of have had to learn through blocks such as shame… shame which is strengthen fear and ignorance. Each of us must fulfill lost nurturing and affection and love as little human-being and become filled with the spirit of love to give to our children… and to break the cycle of dysfunction which affects too many people today. Become willing to be mindful of what love really is and what it is not. Blessings shared.