HOW TO START TO BUILD REAL CAPACITY TO BE PRESENT

Did you ever compromise your common sense and your desire to live in a peaceful – healthy relating way?  Do you find yourself having trouble living centered and thoughtful of “avoiding” negative ways of doing relating? Do you take responsibility for resorting to old miserable ways which end up leaving you feelings of failure or depression? Are you able to understand if you

have emotional stability OR NOT? Or are you having difficulty being honest?

To some of us – including me – DO YOU need someone to confront you directly or for them to  get someone who they tell on you?? You know someone who would help them escape your disturbed way of relating?

Some of us intentionally BS (lie) ourselves which keeps us from living in harmony – healthy and well – along with all others around us (direct family members).  And when there is someone – anyone who appears to live peacefully with us – if you look closely – is probably living away from us with phony communicating – passing this off as a successful relationship?